South African women are breaking societal norms and achieving life milestones earlier than ever, according to a recent survey conducted by 1st for Women, a leading insurance brand designed specifically for women. The nationwide research highlights the outdated nature of societal pressures, the barriers women continue to face, and how they are defying expectations to succeed on their own terms.
Outdated Expectations Under Scrutiny
The study found that over 4 in 5 women (81%) believe societal expectations around age and life events are outdated and need to evolve. However, these traditional pressures remain pervasive, with 60% of respondents feeling pressured to achieve certain milestones by a specific age, and more than half (51%) experiencing judgment related to their age and milestones.
Breaking Barriers and Achieving Early Success
Despite these challenges, South African women are shattering expectations:
- Senior leadership positions are being achieved at an average age of 33 years, almost a year earlier than expected.
- Women are purchasing their first home by age 30 and their first car by 25.
The survey, conducted through The Village Facebook Community with nearly 1,000 women, paints an inspiring picture of a generation determined to succeed.
Redefining Priorities
For many women, the pursuit of success goes beyond traditional markers like marriage and children. The study found:
- 52% are prioritising career fulfilment over traditional milestones.
- 70% rank financial security as their top priority, outpacing family goals (48%) and travel (30%).
- Women are achieving their dream job at an average age of 31 years and 9 months, three years later than societal expectations, with 55% landing this milestone before age 35.
Persistent Workplace Challenges
While women are rewriting the narrative of success, workplace barriers remain a significant challenge:
- 73% agree that the glass ceiling still exists.
- 72% feel men receive more respect in professional settings, and 69% believe men have greater opportunities in the workplace.
- 42% cite family and caregiving responsibilities as obstacles to their career aspirations.
Despite these challenges, 56% of women feel fulfilled at their current life stage, with happiness, financial independence, and continuous learning being key indicators of success.
Empowering Women to Rewrite the Rules
“This research paints an inspiring picture of South African women who are resilient, determined, and rewriting the rules for success,” says Seugnette van Wyngaard, Head of 1st for Women. “At 1st for Women, we are committed to empowering these women on their journey to fearlessness and fulfilment, helping them navigate challenges and celebrate milestones along the way.”
To explore more insights from the study, visit 1st for Women’s website.










